Monday, October 3, 2011

Signing Off...

By now most of you have heard the news, that I'm stepping down as the Pastor of Junior High "Crash" Ministries at Desert Springs Church. It was not an easy decision for me to make. It took a lot of prayer and careful evaluation, but I feel like it's the right decision. It's time for me to move on to the next chapter of my life.


I will certainly miss all of you very much. You have no idea how much each of you have meant to me. We have laughed together, we have cried together, we have learned together and we have served together. I have so many fond memories with all of you. It has been my pleasure to see you grow up and mature in your faith. I love that I have been able to come along side you and point you to God. Know that this isn't a "goodbye," but rather it's an, "until next time." I definitely want to keep in touch with each of you and I want to continue to hear about your lives and celebrate with you in your victories.


Although there is sadness, there is also the excitement of seeing where God is taking me next. I can't wait to see where God is going to lead me. Last Sunday at Crash we talked about how we're on an adventure with God. We don't know where God is going to lead us, but we know that it'll be exciting and that He'll be with us every step of the way. I know that God has something wonderful in store for me and I can't wait to find out what that's going to be.


Please join me on Wednesday night as we hang out together and enjoy each other's company. We'll play games and have another night of fun. Also, this Sunday, October 9th, during the services there will be a party to celebrate the three years that I have served here at Desert Springs Church. This party will begin in Refresh at both services and is for all students and families (and really anyone) who want to come and say goodbye. This is also a chance for me to thank you. It has been a really great three years. I would love to see you all, so don't miss it.


May God bless you in all things. With much love, I'm Cameron Coulter... signing off.

Monday, September 26, 2011

Peace, Man

When you hear the word, 'peace,' what comes to mind? What emotions or pictures does it well up? When I think of peace, the first picture that comes to my mind is a picture of a hippie who is protesting a war. But, does peace just mean no fighting? What about the Cold War? There wasn't fighting, per say. But it definitely wasn't a very peaceful time.

Peace, according to Dictionary.com, means, "1. the normal non-warring condition of a nation, group of nations or the world. 2. freedom of the mind from annoyance, distraction, anxiety, an obsession, etc.; tranquility or serenity. 3. a state of tranquility or serenity." If that's the definition of peace, then I am positive we could all use a little peace in our lives. Especially in this economic climate, we are all a little anxious. To be free from all the annoyances and distractions in our lives, to be able to just sit, and rest and breathe- peace- that would be a more than welcome feeling.

Join us this Wednesday at Crash where we'll be continuing our series, Names of God. This week we'll explore the name 'Jehovah Shalom' which means, 'the LORD is our peace,' and discover how God can be our peace in times of struggle, tension, conflict and pain. I hope to see you all there.

Monday, September 19, 2011

Everything We Need

A hard truth that I had to learn growing up is that God does not give us everything we want. Even if we think that we absolutely need it and desperately ask God, He doesn't necessarily give it to us. If God gave us everything that we wanted, we'd be spoiled. We would see God as a genie in a lamp and not the Almighty Creator. If we got everything that we wanted, it would be unhealthy, because we would think that everything comes easy, and not hard and painful, which is what we need sometimes to learn truths.

No, God does not give us everything we want. But you know what, He gives us everything we need. He will take care of us no matter what. Jesus tells us not to worry about what we wear, or eat. He tells us that we are so much more important to God than plants and animals, and yet, God still takes care of them. Another hard truth is that while God will give us everything we need, this means that He may give us things we don't want. He may have us walk through situations that we won't want to go through.

But you know what, in every trial and hardship, in every situation where we can't see a solution, God does, and He provides. In every situation, good or bad, in every want and need, we can be sure of one thing... that the LORD will provide! He won't just provide us with something, He'll provide us with what He knows is our best. He'll provide us with everything that we need. All junior high students are encouraged to join us at Crash on Wednesday night as we continue our Names of God series, looking specifically at Jehovah Jireh - "The LORD Will Provide." Come and discover how God does and will provide for you everything that you need. I hope to see you all there.

Monday, September 12, 2011

What's In A Name?

Shakespeare asks in his play Romeo & Juliet, "What's in a name? A rose by any other name would still smell as sweet." What is in a name? What does a name mean? Why are we named the way we are? How in the world is Bob a nickname for Robert, or Jim a nickname of James? The name Cameron means "crooked nose," does that mean I actually have a crooked nose?

In the Old Testament people named their children pretty funny names. What's interesting is that the names they gave their children weren't just names, they were characteristics. A name is a very powerful thing. If you can give a name to something then you can begin to understand it, and the qualities it possesses.

So if names are characteristics, and giving something a name is the beginning to understand it, then what about God? Why does He have so many names? God, Almighty, I AM, Father, Jesus, Christ, LORD, King Of Kings, Master. What do they all mean? All junior high students are encouraged to join us tomorrow night as we begin our Names Of God series. It's a wonderful exploration into the names of God, discovering what specific names mean & looking at the Biblical stories behind those names. Come and consider what your favorite name for Him is.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Fall Is Here

It's easy to see that the summer has faded away. It's after Labor Day. Students are already back at school. The weather is cooling off (well starting to anyway). The daylight is getting shorter. Yes, it's beginning to look more like the fall. Just around the corner, students will get back into a more normal schedule, leaves will begin to change (at least in other areas of the country) and everyone will be able to (comfortably) wear jeans and jackets again.



I just love the fall season and not just because my birthday is right in the middle of it. I love the fall season because its the start of a new year- a new school year. I'm excited to see what God is going to do at Crash, in the lives of junior high students and their families this next year. Tomorrow night is the first Crash meeting of the fall and it's our Fall Kick-Off. Parents, I want to strongly encourage you to come to Crash tomorrow night with your student, so I can share with you all what God is doing in my heart, as well as the vision He's given me for Crash for this next school year. I can already tell that 2011-2012 is going to be a great year, and I'm excited to partner with you and see how God is going to bless you and your family. I hope to see all of you students and your parents tomorrow night at Crash, so we can kick off the fall season together.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

We're Going Back In Time

Tomorrow we are going to go back in time without the use of the Delorean (Back To The Future), the Tardis (Dr. Who), the phone booth (Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure), Uncle Rico's Time Machine Modulus (Napoleon Dynamite), the Time Sled (H.G. Well's Time Machine), or the Time Turner (Harry Potter & The Prisoner of Azkaban). How are we going to do this you ask? Simple, it's all in our minds.

It's amazing how fast the summer went by. It seems like it just started, and yet here we are, the end of August, and some are even back at school already. Tomorrow night we are going to flashback and relive the summer in one quick hour and a half segment. Join us tomorrow night as we look at pictures from this summer and remember all the fun times we had. Not only will we look at pictures, but we'll remember what we learned and what decisions we made during the summer. We'll laugh, we'll learn, but don't worry it won't be too "heavy" and you'll be "back in time" for your parents to pick you up. So come join us flash back to the past tomorrow night at Crash. "Don't be a square", I hope to see you there.

Monday, August 8, 2011

Shuffle & Deal

I love to play games of any kind, but I really like to play card games. Card games are just easy and versatile. If you don't have a table top for a board game you can just play a card game. Plus, if you're by yourself, you really can't play Monopoly or Risk, however you can play any number of versions of Solitaire with a deck of cards. This Wednesday night we'll be playing some fun card games. So in honor of my love of card games as well as this Wednesday night, here are my top 10 favorite card games.

10. Go Fish - This is a very basic game. I remember playing this with my brother and my grandma in her RV on family vacations. It's a really fun game. I always played where you have to get a book (all 4 cards) to lay it down and get the points as opposed to just pairs.

9. Rummy (& Hearts) - My brother, sister & I would play this on long, family road trips. We had it down to an art. We would all sit in the back seat of my parents van as they drove. We would then put down the two middle seats and use those as a table to lay down our cards. My strategy in Rummy was to hold on to the cards until I could lay all my cards down and go out on one turn. When it worked, it would catch my siblings off guard. When it didn't, I had a lot of points counted against me. When we played Hearts I tried to 'shoot the moon' more than I should have. I only pulled it off like 10 times.

8. Apples To Apples - This game didn't come out till I was in college. This is a classic party game. I remember being at the RHCC Fall Youth Ministry Staff Retreat at Alpine. So much fun, so many inside jokes. And playing it late at night when everyone is beyond the tired phase and onto the giddy tired phase makes it so much funnier. Though with this game, I always seem to misjudge people. What I think will be a winning card turns out not to be even close. Needless to say, I didn't win very much. But it was still fun anyway.

7. Super Uno - I remember learning this later in high school. This is like Uno, but much better & faster paced. It's played like regular Uno with a few extra rules: 1) You can slip in a card, out of turn, if it is the same color AND same number. 2) 'Draw 2' cards can stack up on top of each other. 3) If anyone plays a '0' then everyone passes their hand to the left. I remember a 20 person game that was just crazy!

6. Family Business - This is a fun mob game where you try to be the last mob standing. I remember that if you played with some of the guys from my college group, you could only talk using a mob-like accent. It made from some hilarious and good times.

5. President & Scum - I remember I learned this game at a youth center on a cruise ship. It was a really fun game. You try to get rid of your cards first by playing cards. The first 2 players to get rid of all their cards, is the president and vice president. The last 2 to get rid of all their cards is the scum & vice scum. You can play as many hands as you want but typically the presidents and scums change each hand. This is a fun game if you have the right amount of people.

4. Spoons - This is a classic, fast paced, party, card game. I remember playing with my family and some family friends. Once, my friend, who is pretty competitive, went to reach for the spoon, he tried to fling the rest away from me to the other end of the table. But in the process he inadvertently fell back in his chair. He didn't get hurt, but we were all laughing about it. I also remember another time when I was able to get a spoon without anyone noticing for 3 full minutes.

3. Egyptian Rat Slap (or Egyptian War) - This one I remember playing at high school summer camp. Everyone loved it and it was easy to jump into a game even if you weren't there when it started. I remember we would play anytime we had free time. Sometimes we'd even play for hours.

2. Hand & Foot - This is actually a game my parents taught me within the last 3 years and it has become one of my favorite. When you have the right cards it's really fun. When you don't it really stinks. I remember playing during Thanksgiving break 2 years ago with my parents and my brother and his wife. I remember Campbell & Krista going out and my mom and I weren't even half way done. We had half our deck count as points against us. Needless to say, they dominated that round. There was no chance to come back. Even though we lost, and even though I complained, I still had lots of fun.

1. Phase 10 - This is one of my favorite card games. But why this is ranked number one is all the memories I have playing this game. I remember when I was going to Biola, my friends Brian, Lauren and I would drive to Denny's or Red Robin late at night (at like 11PM) and sit and play Phase 10. Sometimes we had other friends who would join us. But it was always us. Those were some really good times that I will never forget.

Well, that's it for now. I hope to see all you junior high students tomorrow night at Crash, where we'll have fun playing cards.